I'm back!

I haven't added anything to this blog in ages. So much has happened.

Let's see here, I got divorced last November when the wife decided she was lesbian. Yes, I'll probably post more on that later. The legal stuff didn't seem difficult and we ended up doing it ourselves - that didn't work well in the long run but I'll get to that later. Short version is I get Ben (Sam isn't mine legally) every other weekend from Friday 6pm to Sunday 7pm and we trade holidays.

I met a girl (I'll call her T), fell in love, broke up, made up, broke up again, and now she's getting married to another guy while wondering if she is making a mistake. Yes, I live in a soap opera world.

Meanwhile, I started dating her sister who used to be engaged to my best friend who is also T's unofficially adopted dad. We started out as friends while I was trying to talk her through coping with her breakup and things just sort of... happened. We aren't planning anything long term but she is moving in with me in August - something T really doesn't like since she's not entirely certain that she and her fiance will work out and wants me as a "backup" of sorts. And during all this, I have mixed feelings about which one I really want to be with depending on whether i'm listening to my head or my heart. Both of them seem to love me and I love both of them, I'm just tired of getting hurt by the one and I'm not sure if the other one (I'll call her S) is really ready for a relationship or just looking to get out of the area she's in. Am I just making a big mistake either way? I'm trying to move on with my life and it seems like every step I take hurts somebody.